Guys Tell Their Friends “I Love You” For The First Time
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October 21, 2014
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I LOVE YOU MAN
Do you care about you friend?, do you not want anything bad to happen to
them?, do you miss them sometimes?, would you cry if they died? Yes? and do
you wish there was a word that could express how you feel…..whats that
word again? .. its on the tip of my tongue…Oh yeah LOVE
I tell my friends I love them all the time, I don’t get why its so hard, or
weird, if you can love your pets, and love church members why can’t you
love best friend. or is masculinity that fragile after all
I feel so completely awkward when my friends male or female tell me they
love me. Not because I don’t believe them or don’t love or care about them,
I think it stems from my family not being very openly affectionate or
verbally affectionate with each other. I mean I have 6 brothers and 3
sisters whom I know love me to death and vice versa.
For us, it’s just more of an unspoken thing, we know we love each other and
will protect each other in our actions. Not necessarily hugging and all
that but just by being there and taking care of each other. I guess the
point is, watching them say I love you to each other, no matter how
hilariously awkward at times, is nice and should be done more often. It was
just a nice sight is all. I think I want to start telling people I love
them more often. So awkward but necessary, I think.
It’s the whole “feelings are feminine” stereotype that is in effect here.
So I think this was a really cool thing to do, because love is universal
and doesn’t discriminate. ^^
THATS SO CUTE
If I were here, I would have gone the sarcastic route and have said, “Oh my
god, I like, love you”.
love me ashley :(
I LOVE YOU EREN YEAGER!!!! *cough cough* you didn’t here anything
Xrpmx13 tells his guy friends he loves them all the time. He also calls all
of them different versions of Babe sooo…
I’m a gay male. I’ve said “I love you” to my straight male friends plenty
and it’s never been weird… but I guess that just means I chose the right
friends? *shrug*
Haha my friend and I call each other bae all the time and end our texts
with kisses and say I love you and hug. I think there’s a rumour we are gay
for each other maybe..
I say I love ya to my friends all the time, I’m not homosexual nor bi, does
that make me wierd?
I said this once.
Now I can not get up and I can’t walk anymore.( ͡ ° ͜ʖ ͡° )
I find this whole video weird. Not because of the awkwardness of it, but
because that it is really never said from a guy to a guy.
My best friend lives an hour away. We see each other every 6 months or so.
We talk almost daily. Every time that I see him, we greet each other with a
hug. Not a bro hug… an embrace. An actual hug. Following this with an I
missed you. And every time I leave, it is an I love you and an other hug.
We do not do this daily, or every time we talk, but we do say it a lot. We
actually have deep emotional conversations all the time. I never really
thought it was weird.
Who is that Jay? I think I’ve seen him before somewhere.
Damn they should have got dan and phil to do this
I always tell my friends I love them nothing weird is say no homo though
cuz I’m a guy
I don’t think I’ve ever told my dad “I love you”, I should probably tell
him before it’s too late.
omg jay is so hot
An online friend of mines keeps saying he loves me at the end of messaging
conversations. I’m confused as hell, wtf?? In what way!? o_0 <:(
Why guys don’t say “I love you” to each other:
Friend one: “Alright man (Friend 2), see you later.”
Friend two: “See ya”
Friend one: “Love you”
Friend two: *Shrugs uncomfortably* “Oh.. ok.” *Walks away confused and
slightly uncomfortable*
Random douche: “HA! GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!”
Random douche: *Pulls phone out, starts texting* “Just heard Friend one
say “I love you” to friend two, he is such a faggot”
Friend one: *Commits suicide a few months later as a result from all the
bullying and homophobic insults.*
The culture surrounding males is a big issue today, it is just an ignored
one.
I don’t see why guys can’t say I love you if you and your friend are close
u should say I love u it’s not like y’all getting marring and having kids
it’s 3 words it’s not that serious
Just come right out and say it guys, don’t be afraid of a lil homo
I once said like that in front of my Best friend.. but then He’s Angry and
said I was GAY!! Actually yeah I was Gay.. and I’m falling in love with
him. he’s straight. he leave me forever.. then he hates me :'( ..yeah it’s
my mistake to falling in love with him. screw my life~
My best friend and I have been that way for over 15 years. Literally He has
come across the country to help me move, twice. When he was out of work and
needed money he asked me for a big loan. He’s good for it. I GAVE him what
he needed, twice and asked for nothing in return. He is allowed to speak
into my life and he will come across country again to kick my ass if I were
to do something unlawful. He’s the first person I would call if I won the
lotto or some kind of win fall. We have become more than best friends. We
are covenant brothers, understanding the meaning of that is a bond that can
only be broken by death. I have no problem saying “I love you” to him. He
has no problem saying it to me.
The only reason guys don’t say that is that when they do everybody
automtically declares him or even them gay. It’s sooo much easier as a guy
to be declared as a gay guy as a girl lesbian. And even though noone wants
to admit it, a lot of guys like lesbians because we find it hot. Just
nobody really knows what to do with a gay friend.*does he want to date me?* *Dear
god i mustn’t send the wrong signals* or even* that is so gay/wrong! it’ s
supposed to be adam and eve and not adam and steve* and so on….
Phil is so cute. I want to hug Phil.
At least they have friends… :(
Aw
I’ve never said ‘I love you’ to anyone, and actually meant it. Because, I
don’t. Love is just another word that’s been thrown around wayyy too
frequently, and has thusly lost its meaning. To me at least.
I can show “love” (or, my version of it), but as far as voicing it…. Nah,
I’ll pass.
Henry and Ben seem legit love hahaha
I love that I’m a girl and I’ve never told my friends that I loved them.
Maybe this is because both of my clothes friends are guys and I’ve never
thought that I had to. It’s kind of like an understanding.
I say I love you to my best friend, but after these years he is basicly
family. And it was weird for a while, but I got used to it now.
The only thing I havent got used to is that he started to hug me. That is
weirder to me then that we say I love you to each other.
I honestly don’t think I’ve ever had a “best friend”.. seems everyone in my
life who I considered a best friend ended up having their OWN best friend,
so I have never really been one or had one before… which is sad xD
Guy love between two guys :’)
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None of them said no homo
Pause at 4:15 .
I do love some of my friends. I love their company. I love their jokes.
It’s just something that if they are not in my weekday then I feel a little
bit alone. It’s like…. How do I say this…. I’m not going to hang out
with someone I don’t like. It’s not going to happen. And when we think
about what we do or do not like about people it’s either because we see too
much of ourselves in them or we see next to none. But the people I hang out
with are like *just right*. They are the right amount of me and well… I
love me 🙂 So I love them. That’s how I can explain it.
Korean boys from what I seen are very close to their buddies and freely say
i love you, hug each other and lean on each other. Their very close and
touchy but their not gay, trust me I saw this at school and they have GF, I
guess its different for different cultures.
Brothers say I love you to each other & it’s not weird… so I don’t get
why it’s weird to say it your bro’s.
I tell all my female & male friends I love them… not all the time… but
once in a while, it’s nice. :)
I only have one guy friend I would say “I love you” or hug. I’ve already
hugged him, but I haven’t said I love you…I need to try it sometime. But
I’ll be honest guys should not say I love you to all their guy friends. I
think it’s the mindset that makes it awkward. Girls can say it because they
can be more open with their emotions without being judged.
Um guys what do you think about this
I call shenanigans on Phil being 26. He looks like he’s friggin’ 12.
As a gay man of course I say I love you to my Girls but unspoken bro law ya
don’t do it unless your fucked up
Yo
Oh NO NO NO NO NOOOOO
That would be so effing awkward!!
Nope. nope, NOPE.
None of my friends deserve to hear that I love them, because I don’t.
And even if I did NO!
I think it’s weird that people think it’s weird to say I love you to their
friends. There are many variations of love. The way you love your mother is
different to the way you love your boyfriend/girlfriend. So why can’t you
feel a certain type of love for your best friends? I love my friends, girls
and guys. But not in a romantic way at all.
I SHIP ALL OF THEM..! *pant* *pant*
I swear i’m not crazy.